{"id":77,"date":"2026-10-21T09:58:02","date_gmt":"2026-10-21T02:58:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/?p=77"},"modified":"2026-10-21T09:58:02","modified_gmt":"2026-10-21T02:58:02","slug":"tuong-tac-hai-chieu-nam-buoc-don-gian-giup-phat-trien-nao-bo-cho-tre-nho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/?p=77","title":{"rendered":"T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c hai chi\u1ec1u \u2013 n\u0103m b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u00fap ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 cho tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"cw-lead-sum\">\u0110\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n hay c\u00e1c l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc s\u1edbm. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c qua l\u1ea1i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con m\u1edbi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<h2>1. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c hai chi\u1ec1u l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/h2>\n<p>Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n Tr\u1ebb em thu\u1ed9c \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard g\u1ecdi nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c qua l\u1ea1i gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn l\u00e0 \u201cgiao \u2013 \u0111\u00e1p\u201d (serve and return), v\u00ed nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng b\u00f3ng qua l\u1ea1i trong m\u00f4n qu\u1ea7n v\u1ee3t. Khi tr\u1ebb bi b\u00f4, ch\u1ec9 tay, nh\u00ecn m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt hay \u0111\u1eb7t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac tr\u1ebb \u201cgiao b\u00f3ng\u201d. Khi cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng \u00e1nh m\u1eaft, l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay c\u1eed ch\u1ec9, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac cha m\u1eb9 \u201c\u0111\u00f3n b\u00f3ng\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c n\u00e0y v\u1eeba mang l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m vui, v\u1eeba gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb r\u00e8n luy\u1ec7n k\u1ef9 n\u0103ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn th\u1ee9c. Theo Harvard, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 quan t\u00e2m, ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i k\u1ecbp th\u1eddi gi\u1eefa tr\u1ebb v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c l\u00e0 n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng cho vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc t\u1eadp, h\u00e0nh vi v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe su\u1ed1t \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb.<\/p>\n<h2>2. N\u0103m b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh<\/h2>\n<ol type=\"1\">\n<li><strong>Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a con:<\/strong> ch\u00fa \u00fd xem con \u0111ang nh\u00ecn g\u00ec, ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e2u, quan t\u00e2m \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec v\u00e0 c\u00f9ng con h\u01b0\u1edbng s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3.<\/li>\n<li><strong>\u0110\u00e1p l\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 kh\u00edch l\u1ec7:<\/strong> m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi, g\u1eadt \u0111\u1ea7u, tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01b0a cho con m\u00f3n \u0111\u1ed3 con mu\u1ed1n kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1.<\/li>\n<li><strong>G\u1ecdi t\u00ean s\u1ef1 v\u1eadt, h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng:<\/strong> \u201c\u00c0, con \u0111ang nh\u00ecn ch\u00fa ch\u00f3. Ch\u00fa ch\u00f3 m\u00e0u n\u00e2u \u0111ang v\u1eaby \u0111u\u00f4i.\u201d Vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi t\u00ean gi\u00fap tr\u1ebb k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i t\u1eeb ng\u1eef v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi xung quanh.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Lu\u00e2n phi\u00ean v\u00e0 ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i:<\/strong> sau khi \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i, cha m\u1eb9 d\u1eebng m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1eddi gian ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i. Kho\u1ea3ng ch\u1edd n\u00e0y gi\u00fap con t\u1eadp suy ngh\u0129 v\u00e0 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft khi con mu\u1ed1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac ho\u1eb7c chuy\u1ec3n ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng:<\/strong> khi con m\u1ea5t h\u1ee9ng th\u00fa ho\u1eb7c mu\u1ed1n chuy\u1ec3n sang vi\u1ec7c kh\u00e1c, cha m\u1eb9 h\u00e3y \u0111i theo nh\u1ecbp c\u1ee7a con.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>3. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng trong ng\u00e0y<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Gi\u1edd \u0103n:<\/strong> con ch\u1ec9 v\u00e0o qu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua, m\u1eb9 n\u00f3i \u201cQu\u1ea3 c\u00e0 chua m\u00e0u \u0111\u1ecf. Con c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n s\u1edd th\u1eed kh\u00f4ng?\u201d r\u1ed3i ch\u1edd con ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i:<\/strong> con nh\u00ecn theo chi\u1ebfc xe bu\u00fdt, b\u1ed1 n\u00f3i \u201cXe bu\u00fdt to qu\u00e1 nh\u1ec9! Xe bu\u00fdt \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u nh\u1ec9?\u201d v\u00e0 ch\u1edd con \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Tr\u01b0\u1edbc gi\u1edd ng\u1ee7:<\/strong> \u0111\u1ecdc truy\u1ec7n c\u00f9ng con, th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i h\u1ecfi \u201cCon th\u1ea5y g\u00ec trong b\u1ee9c tranh n\u00e0y?\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>4. Nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc \u0111\u00fang v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i<\/h2>\n<p>Tuy th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eafc \u0111\u1ebfn v\u1edbi tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, nguy\u00ean t\u1eafc t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c hai chi\u1ec1u v\u1eabn \u0111\u00fang khi con l\u1edbn. V\u1edbi tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn, t\u00edn hi\u1ec7u t\u1eeb con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e2u chuy\u1ec7n \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t b\u00e0i h\u00e1t con y\u00eau th\u00edch hay m\u1ed9t n\u1ed7i lo con v\u00f4 t\u00ecnh nh\u1eafc t\u1edbi. M\u1ed7i l\u1ea7n cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u1eb7t \u0111i\u1ec7n tho\u1ea1i xu\u1ed1ng, nh\u00ecn con v\u00e0 l\u1eafng nghe l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t l\u1ea7n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c vun \u0111\u1eafp n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<h2>5. Khi cha m\u1eb9 g\u1eb7p nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1p l\u1ef1c<\/h2>\n<p>Harvard c\u0169ng l\u01b0u \u00fd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng \u00e1p l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh, s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe hay c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 khi\u1ebfn cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f3 ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i con th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. \u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u1ed7i c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9. Ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u0169ng ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch ch\u0103m s\u00f3c con.<\/p>\n<p><strong>T\u00e0i li\u1ec7u tham kh\u1ea3o:<\/strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/developingchild.harvard.edu\/resource-guides\/guide-serve-and-return\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Trung t\u00e2m Ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n Tr\u1ebb em, \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard \u2013 H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c giao \u2013 \u0111\u00e1p<\/a>; <a href=\"https:\/\/interprofessional.ubc.ca\/files\/2017\/01\/Serve_Return_for_caregivers.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">H\u01b0\u1edbng d\u1eabn n\u0103m b\u01b0\u1edbc d\u00e0nh cho cha m\u1eb9 (PDF)<\/a><\/p>\n<p><em>Ch\u01b0\u01a1ng tr\u00ecnh <a href=\"\/?pagename=childwise-family\">ChildWise Family<\/a> gi\u00fap cha m\u1eb9 th\u1ea5u hi\u1ec3u v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi con qua t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n v\u00e0 h\u1ed9i th\u1ea3o th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh. Li\u00ean h\u1ec7 t\u01b0 v\u1ea5n mi\u1ec5n ph\u00ed: hotline\/Zalo <a href=\"https:\/\/zalo.me\/0981350701\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">0981 350 701<\/a> \u2013 email <a href=\"mailto:contact@childwise.com.vn\">contact@childwise.com.vn<\/a>.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0110\u1ec3 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 n\u00e3o b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a con ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n, cha m\u1eb9 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u1eaft ti\u1ec1n hay c\u00e1c l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc s\u1edbm. Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u1ee7a \u0110\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Harvard ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c qua l\u1ea1i h\u1eb1ng ng\u00e0y gi\u1eefa cha m\u1eb9 v\u00e0 con m\u1edbi l\u00e0 y\u1ebfu t\u1ed1 quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-77","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cha-me-dong-hanh"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=77"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/77\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=77"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=77"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/childwise.com.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=77"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}